Frequently Asked Questions

 

Raven Aries in-person Tantra Session Preparation Basics

Answers to your questions

When are you available?

I am available for sessions daily from 9 am to 8 pm. The most efficient way is to provide up to 3 specific times that work for you. If they don’t align with my availability, I will let you know and we can make adjustments accordingly.

To request an appointment, please fill out the booking form and clearly indicate your preferred times and days. Same day and short notice requests are also welcome.

If you require a session outside of my preferred hours, I am open to considering it on a case by case basis.

Where are you located?

My clean, private, and discreet space is located about a 10 minute drive south/southwest of downtown Austin. This tranquil sanctuary provides an exclusive setting to allow you to surrender into our sensual tantric experience. The actual address will be provided once your appointment is fully confirmed.

What are your rates?

Please refer to the offerings page for a list of all the services and rates.

Does the non-refundable deposit count toward the session?

Yes.

How much time should I set aside?

For first timers and option 2, I recommend a 90-minute session.

(for reference on the options, see the offerings page

If you choose option 3 or the couples session, I recommend setting aside 2 hours.

If you want to fully indulge in the magical experience of tantric embodiment with me as your guide, a 2-hour session is ideal.

However, I understand that some may have time constraints, so I also accept 1-hour sessions for option 1 and 2. 

Do you do outcall?

No, outcall services are not provided. All clients are required to come to my studio for their sessions. However, once a level of familiarity and trust has been established, I am open to discussing the possibility of a Fly Me To You arrangement.

How do I send you the deposit?

Use any of these payment apps, in the following order of preference: Zelle, Venmo, Cashapp, Paypal, or an Amazon gift card.

Alternatively, you can bring the payment in cash prior to our confirmed session.

What if I don't want to send you screening info due to privacy concerns?

I completely understand that you may be nervous about your privacy.

The information you share with me is private and confidential. I am the only person privy to whatever you send me.

I use protonmail, the most well-known secure email provider with end-to-end encryption. 

I absolutely need to establish who you are before I invite you into my private space and enter into such an intimate and vulnerable relational connection with you.

Since my safety is non-negotible, screening is non-negotiable.

What is your cancellation policy?

Please see my rescheduling and cancellation policy here.

What are your boundaries?

After submitting the booking form, you will promptly receive a confirmation reply. It will clearly outline my personal boundaries, hopefully leaving no room for confusion. Let me reiterate that I am not an escort and I do not provide full service.

Do you have age limits, ethnicity or gender exceptions?

My preference is 21+ for age minimum. If you’re between 18-21 we can discuss a booking on a case-by-case basis, and this must include seeing your state-issued ID or passport.

I am open to seeing people of all genders, ethnicities and races.

Do you have a shower I can use?

Yes! You’re welcome to shower before and/or after. You will find that I have stocked up on shampoos and soaps for men as well as unscented and neutral ones.

Do you offer video/online/virtual sessions?

Yes. Please see the virtual offerings page for more on virtual sessions.

Expectations & Etiquette

Honoring your provider's intake process - screening & deposit

Most established providers have put in years if not decades of training and money and time into this vocation. So think of them as you would any other professional whose time and expertise you value.

Screening is the process that established providers undertake to determine if they would like to have you as a client. We all do it differently, depending on what allows us to feel the most safe & relaxed while providing you this very intimate experience.

You can see my screening process here.

A deposit communicates that you’re serious about booking (you’ll be surprised the number of time wasters we have to wade through on the daily) and it also honors the time I’ve set aside for you and blocked out of my calendar.

It is best practice to provide screening information in the initial contact as you send in your booking form, so that that the provider doesn’t have to chase you for it. Of course, I understand that it can be sensitive information, so if you need to wait until we’ve spoken on the phone or video before you send it, that is fine.

It is important to understand that as the provider, I make the call on how the process works. You can make your case about what you find difficult about my process, but stay respectful and courteous and I am open to working with genuine situations.

If you disagree with or disapprove of my screening requirements, I accept that, but it means we’re not compatible since my time is precious and my safety is non-negotiable.

Preparing for the session

Prior to our session, I request that both of us prioritize hygiene. Since I ensure I am freshly-showered at the beginning of each session, I ask that you do the same. If you’ve had a long day, please feel free to take a quick shower at my studio before we start.

Given the closeness of our contact, oral hygiene is equally essential. For your convenience, I provide single-use toothbrushes, toothpaste, and mouthwash for your use.

Additionally, please ensure you arrive hydrated and in a sober state.

If you are coming in for a session that incorporates prostate healing, I recommend refraining from eating for at least four (4) hours beforehand.

Arrival

When you arrive, text me to give me a heads up before you come to the door.

If you arrive early, please wait in the car and come to the door at start time, or text to see if I’m ready to see you early.

If you’re running late, just text me to let me know so I may adjust the session structure.

If you’re more than 15 minutes late and I haven’t heard from you, I consider it a no-show and ask that you send in a full payment.

During the session...

I will provide you context in accordance to your intention for the session.

For the session, I use unscented fractionated coconut oil mixed with unscented almond oil, and I add a few drops of essential oils.

The essential oils I use might include: lavender, tea tree, tangerine, orange, sandalwood, ylang ylang.

If you prefer I don’t use any scents at all, let me know in advance.

How to complete the final payment

Payment is for my time and exquisite attention.

To ensure a smooth process, please make sure to complete the final amount before your session begins. If you can, bring the remaining payment in cash, place it on any counter, preferably in the bathroom, and point it out to me as an indication of completion.

Alternatively, you are welcome to use the same payment method that was used for the deposit.

Gifts and tips

Tips and gifts are not expected, but they are always appreciated.

If you wish to enhance your experience by providing specific items for our use — such as lingerie, costumes, toys — I’m happy to oblige. Feel free to reach out for the address to send any such items.

If you are interested in spoiling me just because you can and want to, please visit my wishtender list or my amazon wish list.